I went to see Blue’s 20th Anniversary Concert

One love…for the mother’s pride 

One love…for the times we cried 

One love…gotta stay alive 

I will survive 

One love…for the city streets 

One love…for the hip hop beats 

One love…oh I do believe 

One love is all we need ☝️ 

Wow…that song brings back memories from my teenage years!  

I’ve been a fan of Blue since I was in secondary school.

Back then, things were less digital and I was still in the process of learning how to survive life in general.  There were fun moments in my adolescent years but most of them were pretty awkward and cringey.

Enjoying music from the early 2000’s was my way of keeping it together.

I only had my first phone when I entered college for matriculation (pre-university), so I was relying on walkman and cassette player as my music-listening tools.  Additionally, I would watch music videos and stage performances on TV or computer connected to landline telephone internet.

How laidback were we back then with less technology, huh?

Fast forward to two decades later, I’m now a working adult with my own income and lifestyle. 

I found out that Blue was coming (back) to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia for a concert.  It was for their 20th anniversary tour.

Other artists were/ are coming too in this same year such as Ne-yo, Westlife, Blackpink, Louis Tomlinson, and more.

I low-key was determined to get a ticket to Blue’s concert since the price range and seats layout were the most attractive to me.  I saw it as a destined chance to finally see them live as a reward for my teenage self.

So I set an alarm on my phone to alert me when tickets started to be on sale and borrowed my sister’s laptop as I was still at my hometown for Christmas and New Year holidays when they started selling the tickets online.

I went for the VVIP package that included a Meet & Greet session, a poster, and a lanyard.  After I successfully purchased a ticket, it felt surreal to me but I tried my best to contain my excitement.

Day by day, I was counting down to the concert day.

I revisited my Apple Music playlist and played Blue’s old and new songs on repeat. 

About two weeks before the concert day, the organiser (Hitman Solutions and Happymoon Live) organised a #20YearsChallenge to pick a number of fans who would get soundcheck passes to witness the group testing and adjusting their sound system before the concert started.

I created my content in the form of an Instagram Reel and submitted it on the first day of the contest itself.  Can you tell how excited I was?

I was confident with my submission but still felt a tinge of nervousness that I might not win and would miss the special opportunity.

About two days before the concert, the winners were announced and I saw my username @prissy.st as the first one on the list!  I was going to a soundcheck session with Blue!

Soundcheck ✔️ 

Meet & Greet ✔️ 

Concert ✔️ 

If I could talk to my younger self from many years ago, I would tell her “This is for you. Enjoy!”.

On the concert day, I woke up smiling knowing that I would see my teenage crushes up-close for the first time. 

I made my coffee and had a meal while keeping track of the time so that I would not miss the fan experiences prior to the concert.

I wrote fan letters to each member and their manager, and decorated them with stickers and washi tapes just like how my teenage self would.  When the time came, I took my shower and got ready.

Then, I drove to Kuala Lumpur Convention Centre (KLCC) as the concert took place in Plenary Hall of KLCC.

As soon as I parked my car at the basement parking of the convention centre, I made my way to the wristband collection point. I made sure to read every visible signboard and banner to get to the correct spot.

While waiting for the soundcheck to start (We were actually also waiting for the members to arrive from their hotel), I took a few commemorative photos and videos at the venue.  It felt good to be back in the physical concert scene after a global pandemic.  I couldn’t help but to smile on my own from time to time.

To shake off my nerves, I casually talked to a few of the other fans while waiting.

We were briefed on the general rules of the soundcheck to not get in the way of the concert preparation but were also reminded to enjoy the moments.

As the door to the hall was opening, we could hear “One, two, one two…” from one of the members.  That sounded like Simon’s voice.  Their tour manager gave us the green light to enter, so we excitedly (but quietly) entered the hall while the lads were singing a part of ‘Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word’.

Man…they looked effortlessly cool just sitting on their chairs while singing and talking!

They continued to request for adjustments on their microphones and in-ears from the sound engineer as we continued to watch them in awe.  I recorded bits of the moments on my phone but I mostly recorded them with my eyes to be embedded into my core memories.

The members tested their sound system by singing a couple more songs - ‘All Rise’ and ‘Haven’t Found You Yet’.

At the end, they ended the soundcheck with Lee playfully saying “Alright, that was the concert!” and we laughed at his joke.  They spent a few minutes to chat with us and came closer to the edge of the stage.  They bid goodbye with Duncan saying “Enjoy the show!”.  The members waved and blew kisses while walking away.  Lee was the last one to walk away and he even sang a quick birthday song to those whose birthdays were in February.

We then made our way out to the Meet & Greet session for VVIP ticket holders. 

We were informed that the photo session would be conducted in groups at the request of the artists management.  Their management did not expect to have that many VVIP fans.

As we were lining up in groups of five-ish and waiting, we killed the time by chatting with other fans around us.  One by one, each group was called in.  We cheered for those going before us and that got us even more excited (and probably nervous too).  When it was my group’s turn, I couldn’t stop smiling and shrieking internally.  I felt my heart beating fast as I was walking into the photoshoot room.  I’m pretty sure I never stopped smiling the entire time as if my jaws were locked in that smiling position.  I instantly saw Simon first, and I saw Lee next to him.  Antony and Duncan were there too on the other side.  I cruised my way to stand next to Simon and not too far from Lee.  As I was approaching them, I instinctively bowed to say hello.  Simon bowed back slightly but Lee was bowing back to me 90-degree. LOL 

After a couple of shoots, we had to go and make way for the next group.  I quickly took out the fan letters I had put in a clear plastic seal from my bag and faced Simon as I gave them to him while saying “These are for you guys”.  Simon said thank you with a gorgeous smile, so I looked away shyly.  I then looked at Lee and said “I’ll enjoy the show” and as I turned around, I saw and felt him poking my left shoulder as if gesturing “See you later!”.  I just kept smiling again while walking out until I saw one of the organisers and told her “So fast but so cool” with a thumb up.  She giggled and said thank you.

I had about an hour left before the show started, so I met up with a relative (the wife of my grandma’s cousin’s son) who was also attending the concert.  I was hungry and thirsty, so I had a burger and plain water.

We then made our way to the concert hall but stopped a while for a photo-taking session at the concert backdrop.

Then, I collected my lanyard and poster before entering the concert hall.

After an opening remark by the emcee (Natalie of Fly FM) and a couple of songs from the opening act (Diana Danielle), Blue’s intro music medley was played.  

Then, the concert was starting! 

No words can truly describe what I was going through during the entire show but I sure was having a damn good time.

I would replay this memory many, many times.

Below was the setlist for the evening:

1- Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word

2- Heart & Soul

3- Haven’t Found You Yet

4- U Make Me Wanna

5- Ultraviolet 

6- Paradise

7- Medley: Get Ready + Signed, Sealed, Delivered

8- Get Down On It

9- King Of The World

10- Best In Me

11- If You Come Back

12- Too Close

13- Dance With Me

14- Curtain Falls

15- Fly By

16- Bubblin’

17- All Rise

18- One Love

Thank you, Blue!

Thank you, organiser!

One love! 💙

Do’s & Don’ts of Managing Money

*Cue the song ‘Billionaire’ by Travie McCoy*

Wouldn’t it be nice to have all the money you need at all times?

Wouldn’t it be nice to walk into a store and happily get a luxurious item you like without checking the price?

Wouldn’t it be nice to travel around the world with only the best accommodations and VIP arrangements?

Wouldn’t it be nice to truly experience peace of mind knowing you are debt-free?

All of those are good aspirations in my opinion but quite far-fetched for most commoners (Is that even the right term?).

If you are able to do any or all of those things, good for you!  Please keep it up.

For a lot of people who are rather surviving than thriving when it comes to building wealth, please know that it’s going to be okay.  I can’t promise you that it will be quick or easy, but you will find your way.  If you’re already practising healthy financial habits and you’re seeing an improvement in your money management, keep it going because consistency is the key.

Those who are currently in survival mode and living pay check by pay check with close to zero surplus, I hear you.  I know it’s tough.  So, let’s get through this one day at a time and be mindful of where our money goes.

Financial wellbeing is as important as any type of wellbeing because it can have a causation effect on the rest of your…..well, being.  See the wordplay I did there?  LOL

If you’re still struggling to start your better financial habits, here are some do’s and don’ts that I’ve learned and practised for the past couple of years.  These have helped me get through price hikes and minor emergencies while still allowing me to enjoy occasional indulgences.

The day we receive our wage or salary is usually a crucial time for our money management decisions, so these do’s and don’ts are to be observed especially during the first week of getting paid.

Do’s:

- Do track your money inflow and outflow including cash in hand, money in bank account, and credit card usage.

- Do segregate your budget into commitments (ie. - loans, bills, rent, insurance), expenses (ie. - groceries, eating out, transportation), savings (ie. - emergency, investment, targeted future purchase), and loose money.

Loose Money here refers to surplus (balance) money you have left after deducting your usual spendings.  It can be used to buy gifts, go for a vacation, treat yourself to a spa, or kept for additional saving or investment.

- Do prioritise according to your current circumstances using Must—Need—Should—Only If order.

[Example - 1st Commitments (Must pay or allocate as per pre-determined amount), 2nd Expenses (Need to allocate certain amount), 3rd Savings (Should allocate some amount), 4th Loose Money (Only if the other priorities are met)]

- Do write down your monthly financial goal.

[Examples - No new shoes or bags; Eat out once a week only; Pay off credit card balance; etc.]

- Do ask for advice from a trusted family member or friend who seems financially literate if in doubt of your current priorities.

Don’ts:

- Don’t stray away from your budget.

- Don’t treat credit cards like extra money.

- Don’t mistake temporary wants as needs.

- Don’t make financial decisions when you’re too tired or too happy.

- Don’t be afraid to say NO to things or activities you cannot afford yet.

So, can we commit to applying the above do’s and don’ts?

Sikit-sikit, lama-lama jadi bukit.

Start Journaling!

Do you believe in the power of manifestation?

How about the benefits of mental resets?

I’m aware that we’re all distinctive human beings who are unique in our own ways.  When it comes to life goals and aspirations, some of us might want similar things, while some prefer to mix it up here and there.

That’s the beauty of it!

Life’s what YOU make it.  No matter what the generalised society standards are, don’t forget to prioritise what’s important to YOU.

Now that we’re getting more comfortable to become who we want and achieve what we desire, how do we attract the right vibes to get ourselves to that pinnacle of success or happiness?

Let me tell you the secret - it’s all up to what your brain decides.  Our minds are powerful.  What we think about many times will most likely come true with the right resources and circumstances.

Because of this, I highly recommend each of you to start journaling.  Yes, journaling.

I had always been very bad at journaling.  I would buy many different types of notebooks and diaries, but only used a few pages before forgetting they existed.  Possibly contributed by my ADHD-ish traits, I was struggling with being consistent at writing down my thoughts.

Quite recently, I figured out why.  It was because I mistakenly thought that journaling should strictly be done in one style of “dear diary” activity.  Boy, was I wrong.

There are actually different styles of journaling and all of them can make an impact to the person doing it regularly.

Below are some journaling styles I would like to mention:

1) Manifestation Style

This style emphasises on what we want to achieve for the day, week, month, or even year.

It allows us to declare the things we want to happen and diminish any doubts we might have.

I use this style now as my daily morning “Today I will” journal.

2) Gratitude Style

This style lets us list down things we are thankful for and helps us count our blessings.

It simply recognises positive experiences as more impactful than negative ones.

I also use this style as my weekly “Best blessing” routine.

3) Story-Telling Style

This style gives us a chance to narrate what has been happening to us and what we think will happen next.

It serves as a diary that documents our memorable moments in writing and sometimes in pictures too.

4) Expressive Style

This style allows us to rant about our day or week in a therapeutic manner.

It provides freedom to say (write) what we want about a situation or incident or idea without being judged.

5) Artsy Style

This style lets us get creative and artistic with our way to portray a topic, occasion, or even emotion.

It is also known as junk journaling where we can use stickers, washi tapes, magazine cuts, hand-drawing, or literally any materials.

6) Planner Style

This style may be more attractive to people who prefer to be organised and in control.  It helps us track our schedule and activities including appointments, exercises, water intake, money flow, etc.

I practise a little bit of this style too by having simple Appointments for the Week and Money Tracker sections in my journal.

What other journaling styles do you know of?

And which one is your favourite style?

I hope you find the one that suits you.

Happy journaling!

The 30-After-30-Before Rule

For the past few months, I started this new habit I call 30-After-30-Before.  I learned this after listening to a talk during World Mental Health week.

Basically, I dedicate 30 minutes after I wake up in the morning and 30 minutes before I go to bed at night for mandatory me-time.  On busy working days or on free weekends, I stick to this.

The suitable length of time may vary from one person to another, but the bare minimum should be 10 minutes per session.

For the first few weeks of doing this, it felt a little bit out of place for me because my anxiety wouldn’t let me fully relax and be in the moment.  I kept doing it anyway because I’ve learned that healthy habits are developed by repetitively doing something positive even if some level of gentle forcing may be required.

During the first 30 minutes after I wake up, I usually make myself a cup of coffee and drink it while playing a game on my Nintendo Switch or phone.  Before I go to bed, I normally scroll social media platforms (TikTok, IG) to see random but sometimes educational contents, or watch an episode of a series on Netflix or Disney Plus.

Through this habit also, I’ve become more comfortable in setting reasonable boundaries both at work and in my personal life.  I still hustle and deliver my best daily, but I also remember to take a step back and breathe.

That’s the goal!

Millionaire by Menabung

How have you been this year?

We’re about to say goodbye to 2022 in less than 2 months!

For me, this year has been quite eventful and life-changing.

Overall, it has been a good year and I’m getting the feeling that this is another beginning of something wonderful in my personal life.

Today, I would like to share about a concept I’ve been thrilled to do when it comes to personal financial management.

I call it ‘Millionaire by Menabung’.

For non-Malay language speakers, ‘menabung’ refers to the act of saving up money into a piggy bank.  These days, it has evolved to more than that with the advancement of our financial system and investment options.

Let’s face it - the economy and cost of living have made it increasingly challenging for most of us to consistently save up and become financially stable.

I’m lucky enough to be able to live comfortably and enjoy occasional indulgences every now and then.  However, I’m still a bit worried about my personal wealth in case of a major economic downturn in the future.

Because of this, I’ve made it my personal goal to build up my wealth and funds bit by bit.

My mission is simple - I want to be able to survive on my own if my regular source of income gets cut off for whatever reason.  Once my emergency fund is sufficient to last for months, the subsequent surplus is then channeled to non-mandatory spendings such as travels, gadgets, self-care indulgences, and others.

I have more than one active bank accounts.

Instead of closing the older accounts, I’ve segregated each of my existing bank accounts into specific functions:-

Account 1 - Loose Fund Account (where my monthly salary is pumped into)

Account 2 - Intermediary Account (where I put aside money for monthly commitments such as bills, groceries, investments, and regular spending)

Account 3 - Safekeeping Account (where I keep money for emergency)

Account 4 - Miscellaneous Account (where I allocate specific amount of money for personal insurance auto-debit)

I use an app called Loot to keep track of how much I have saved and how much my target amounts are for certain items.

To help me with my longer term saving and investment, I make use of a wealth management platform called StashAway, licensed by the Securities Commission Malaysia (eCMSL/A0352/2018).

I have a long way to go and I need to be disciplined enough to consistently mind my savings and spendings.

This little initiative of mine is my own way to reach personal financial freedom.

Whatever your circumstances are, I hope you find your little way towards financial wellbeing.

My Fidget Spinners

Have you ever wondered what the once famous fidget spinners are originally for? 🪀🪁🚂

They are tools used to relieve anxiety or calm the nerves.

Although anyone can get it for fun, it is especially useful for those with anxiety, attention deficit, or autism.

In my personal experience, it helps to have a little something I can hold on to and play around with while executing a task such as talking on the phone, listening to someone, presenting a case, and so on.  I moderately struggle with ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) and anxiety. There are times when I need aid to remain calm and focused.  This is because I would naturally get fidgety when focusing on a task and my hands and feet would become hyperactive.

I do not own an actual fidget spinner, but I have its alternatives — my McDonald’s Happy Meal toys! 🧸 

Every now and then, I would order a Happy Meal and collect these cutesy and colourful toys.  I keep some of them in my bag, in my car, on my desk, and near my work area.  When I need something to hold on to, I would spin, toggle, disassemble, and reassemble them.

Your thoughts?

My Daytime Skincare Routine

Hey there!

Ever since I became a beauty consultant with Mary Kay Malaysia, I’ve realised how vital it is to be consistent in practising our skincare routine.

After learning the correct methods and improving my product knowledge, I find it fun now.

Below are the skincare items that I use for my daytime skincare routine:

- Cleanser with Skinvi brushing device

- Lip scrub

- Essence water

- Intensive serum with Skinvi massager

- Eye cream

- Day cream with SPF30

- Sunscreen with SPF50

Occasionally, I will add the following:

- Charcoal mask

- Eye patch

- Eye gel

- Lip balm

How about you?